Penile thickness overrated - all that women need is orgasm - Sexologist
At one point in most men’s lives, they have stood before a mirror wondering if the size of their male genitalia is what can get a woman excited, and this is why some end up considering penile enlargement.
There are several reasons why a man might wonder if they are enough down there, such insecurities can be triggered by seeing another man pee in the urinal or buddy discussions that are often centred on pleasing women in bed.
Actually most men with a micro penis do not have the confidence to stand naked in front of a lady, they say this has robbed them of their masculine confidence.
There are also revealing men clothes such as sweatpants that tend to easily expose what is packed there. Some men get their egos easily boosted when they get a wow factor from curious onlookers, mostly ladies.
Clinical Sexologist Lesedi Bokhutlo says one of the common things that makes men wonder if they have the right size or not is when they feel they have not delivered on a sexual expedition.
A man needs to smash hard and hit the right spots for a woman to enjoy sexual intercourse but if the act gets cold, it gets the man’s mind racing especially if they are sleeping with a new partner.
Sadly, women hardly give men the much-needed feedback after sex and this is what is driving men crazy. And seeing a bigger penis will surely have them questioning their sexual game.
Bokhutlo blames all these on modern culture of acceptance that drives a lot of men into penis enlargement. He says a 2021 study showed that about 55 per cent of men consider penile enlargement.
Such is done mostly by men within the bracket of middle age. But there is nothing much to size contrary to what is popularly known that women prefer thickness and a bit of length.
Bokhutlo shares that even a penis that is considered small has the ability to yield different types of orgasms and that is all that women need and enjoy, reaching cloud 9!
“Practice the right way of orgasm-yielding sex as orgasm is what most women long for,” he said.
Nonetheless, there are men who have successfully undergone enlargement procedures and have healed well with less effects.
But this does not mean that men should continue grabbing products from store shelves which are uncertified just to look and feel better about their organs.
In some cases, some men are said to have repeatedly pulled their non-erect penis with their thumb and forefingers in an effort to stimulate blood flow and increase penis size.
This is dangerous because what it does is cause bruising, pain or scarring which could result in the penis shortening instead of growing bigger.